Sunday, June 2, 2013

9 Steps to a More Relaxed Life

Lynn Whitmire

Stress is pervasive on our society today, job worries, concern over finances, the rising cost housing, food and higher education, the anniversary of 9/11 and the holidays coming up. People are “stressed out”. They often look for comfort in things like food or drinking and smoking which don’t really help but add to the fear, tension and anxiety. With all of the “bad news” we are being asked to accept as the “new normal” how can we feel calm and relax with all of this coming at us?

Surprisingly, Hypnosis is one tool to help you take back that control. Studies show its efficacy reducing anxiety for test, sports performance and even in medical procedures.
There are many misconceptions about hypnosis, Hollywood and stage shows make people think that it is a sort of mind control, that the hypnotist can make you do something you don’t want to do. Those people that participate do so voluntarily to take part in the fun, to make it exciting; Hypnotherapy is actually more exciting than that -using your mind to overcome stress and negative thinking.

We naturally slip in and out of a “trance” all throughout the day. Like reading a book or watching TV or a movie and not hearing someone speaking to us or even driving somewhere on “autopilot”, we are not out of it; it is actually a heightened awareness.

We have Beta, Alpha, Theta Delta brainwaves they are all active all the time, one is more predominant. When we focus our attention on something we begin to slip into a light trance or Alpha.

In fact, there is a thing called the ultradian rhythm that says we actually need to go into that Alpha about every 90-120 minutes thought the day or we create stress.

Psychologists have a rule called 7 +/- 2 which means out conscious mind can only keep track of 5-9 thoughts per second. When we experience that “autopilot” while driving it is because there is so much to keep track of we override the conscious minds ability and subconscious mind kicks in to help us.

One definition of hypnosis is a focused inner attention.
All hypnosis is really self hypnosis. The Hypnotist acts as a coach or guide to help you use your mind in a way you haven’t been taught. The hypnotist assists you to utilize the power of your own mind to make the changes you desire. Athletes, performers, business people use these techniques all the time, in fact if you don’t use them you are being programmed inadvertently.

Our Subconscious mind is neutral, like a computer. The conscious mind is rational, analytical, thinking and judging. The subconscious mind is “in charge’ of our emotions, habits, memory, behaviors and automatic body function. It can only act on what we “program” into it.
The NSF (National Science Foundation) estimates we have 30-60 thousand thoughts a day and 70-80% are negative.

How Hypnosis can help with the stress response?
How do you find balance? How do we alter out thinking, stop the cycle and focus on the positive and take back control.
We cannot control external factors, can control how we respond to those things we perceive as stressful.

Unfortunately many of us spend the day “imagining” about these perceived threats which creates stress. Yet, if are with someone we love or simply look at a picture of someone we love the same positive feelings happen. Remember that subconscious controls automatic body functions like the fight or flight response. The mind cannot tell the difference between what we see “out there” and what we close our eyes and imagine. Hypnosis is helpful tool to assist in stress reduction because it can assist us in “reprogramming” that automatic response to be beneficial.

Hypnosis reduces oxygen use, heart rate and respiration. It turns off the stress response as you shift from the sympathetic to parasympathetic nervous system you lower stress hormones like cortisol and release cascades of beneficial hormones. Hypnosis is restorative like a good nights sleep.

There is a lot of good science focused on our ability to reduce stress and generate positive emotions. Heartmath Institutes has studied stress for 19 years and has shown how emotions of appreciation and love reduce stress. Dr. Herbert Benson developed the relaxation response to counteract the “fight or flight” response.

Meditation is beneficial yet can be challenging for beginners, many people find it easier guided through a process like hypnosis.
How Can I use hypnosis to help me?

Some Tips that you can use. (Self Hypnosis)
It is as simple as pretending and imagining. If you have children and have ever watched how they really get into whatever game they are playing, it’s like that.

1.The Pink Elephant - How do you imagine?
People imagine differently, we perceive the world through our sense of seeing, feeling, hearing, tasting and smelling. For some they will visualize the elephant if not, that is ok, you still imagined the elephant. Engage all of your senses when imagining.

2.Rate your level of stress or tension 0-10 then assess after we finish (this is not a lot of time so even a reduction of 1 is good)

3.Close your eyes (to block out external stimulus) and pretend they are so relaxed they just won’t open as long as you chose to hold onto the relaxation. When you know you’ve done that test them to see that they just won’t work. (If you’ve followed the instructions they will remain closed, if not just take a nice breath and relax your eyes again.)

4.Notice your breath. If you become aware of your thoughts that is just “the blabberer”, your conscious mind wanting to distract you. Return your attention to your breath and take a nice deep breath. In through the nose, hold a moment, out through the mouth. Note: there are different types of breath. We often hold breath or breathe very shallowly. There is a good reason for that, to prepare us for fight or flight.The easiest way to relax is to take a few to evoke good deep breaths, it is physiologically impossible to be as tense or stressed after a few good deep breaths. Hypnotic suggestion can reinforce that relaxation breathing so it becomes “automatic”.

5.Count down from 10-1 or perhaps imagine going down a flight of 10 stairs through a doorway that leads to the inner part of your mind

6.Bring your attention to the area of your heart, begin to feel appreciation, gratitude and love. Children or pets are often the easiest to help access those feelings.

OR… Begin to imagine a very safe, special, relaxing place, maybe somewhere you’ve been or somewhere purely imaginary.

7.“Anchor it” breath it in placing your hand on your heart or touching your finger & thumb together

8.Gently open your eyes and come fully alert

9.Rate your level of stress 0-10

It becomes a conditioned response. It doesn’t have to take long, more you practice the better you get, it becomes easier to instantly evoke the relaxation response more you practice. Simply thinking about those images or touching your “anchor” will bring back those good feelings.

Of course don’t do it while driving!

Lynn Whitmire C.H.T., C.M.T., is the owner of Advanced Hypnotherapy in San Diego, California.(http://www.advancedhypnotherapyonline.com/). Lynn has received extensive training in hypnosis, NLP and energy psychology. She is a certified mind-body hypnotherapist. A member of the International Medical and Dental Hypnotherapy Association she is a registered hypno-anesthesia therapist and a Certified Master Trainer for the International Association of Counselors and Therapists providing beginning and advanced hypnosis training courses.


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Go Through Your Horoscopes Daily To Have A Pleasant Day Ahead

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Are you very much curious about your future?? You can get the prediction of your future with the help of these horoscopes. Some of the people don’t believe in this kind of science, but actually when you will open astrology, you will come to know that most of the things are true.

Horoscopes are twelve in number, derived from the constellations present in the sky. Every horoscope has one symbol, element and one ruling planet.

The twelve zodiac signs with their complete information are given below:

Aries
A person belonging to this horoscope takes birth in between March 21 and April 20. The symbol of mountain goat with the ruling planet mars and element fire, governs Aries horoscope. The people, belonging to this sign are goal oriented and short-tempered.

Taurus
People belonging to Taurus take birth in between April 21 and May 20. The symbol of a bull with the ruling planet Venus and element earth, governs Taurus horoscope. People belonging to this sign are loyal, romantic and passionate at heart.

Gemini
As the name specifies, these are two facets people. They love to get knowledge, but they also love the fun. This fun loving personality deviate them from their path. These people take birth in between May 21 and June 20. The symbol of the twins with the ruling planet mercury and element air, governs Gemini horoscope.

Cancer
People belonging to this horoscope are very emotional with peace and calm nature. They can understand others well. Takes birth in between June 21-July 20. The symbol of the crab with the ruling planet moon and element water, governs Cancer horoscope.

Leo
Leos take birth in the month of July 21-August 20. The symbol of a lion with the ruling planet sun and element fire, governs Leo horoscope. These people are gifted with qualities of leadership.

Virgo
Virgos take birth born in the month of August 21-September 20. The symbol of virgin with the ruling planet mercury and element earth, governs Virgo horoscope. These people hate to take risks.

Libra
Personalities belonging to Libra take birth in between September 21 and October 20. The symbol of weighing scales with the ruling planet Venus and element air, governs Libra horoscope. People belonging to this zodiac sign have got the high thought processing capacity. They are very optimistic and family loving human beings.

Scorpio
People belonging to this zodiac sign take birth in between October 21-November 20. They are blessed with the symbol of the scorpion and the ruling planet mercury with the basic element water. These people have got attractive property in them. Relations can go very intense with people having Scorpio horoscope. Victory love scorpions.

Sagittarius
People belonging to this zodiac sign take birth in between November 21-December 20. The symbol of an archer with the ruling planet Jupiter and element fire, governs Sagittarius horoscope. They love competition and challenges.

Capricorn
People, who take birth in the month of December 21-January 20 belong to the zodiac sign Capricorn. The symbol of the goat with the ruling planet Saturn and element earth, governs Capricorn horoscope. Endurance is the word used to define these people. These people have great stamina and never cry in front of anyone.

Aquarius
People belonging to this zodiac sign are classified as most trustworthy personalities present over the earth. Always speak and favour truth. These intellectual people take birth in between January 21-February 20. The symbol of the water bearer with the ruling planet Saturn and element earth, governs Aquarius horoscope.

Pisces
Pisces belongs to those who take birth in between February 21-March 20. The symbol of fish with the ruling planet Jupiter and element water, governs Pisces horoscopes. People belonging to this sign are very compassionate towards their work.





























PEACOCK POWER

Judith Ryan

Feeling a bit drab and unstylish lately?

Do you desire a greater sense of vibrancy in your life experience?

Has the recognition you’ve worked so hard for been constantly out of your grasp?

If you’ve answered, “yes” to any of these questions, it may be time to incorporate some peacock power into your life.

Yes, there are some negative associations and sayings attached to this beautiful creature. “Proud as a peacock” is one. Also the common description of a vain person as a peacock is another. But do not allow them to keep you from incorporating the potent image of the peacock into your life.

Instead think of what William Blake wrote, “The pride of the peacock is the glory of God.”

Due to their ability to fly, birds have been perceived as sacred emissaries since ancient times. As a result, they are immortalized in art, spiritual writings, legends, and songs. Even in the twenty-first century man still holds a sense of awe for birds.

The use of the peacock as a mystical symbol spans antiquity. The ancient Greco-Roman religions held the bird sacred to Hera, who was queen of the gods.

They are also held sacred to Kuan Yin, the Buddhist saint of Mercy and Compassion. There is also a Buddhist cleansing ritual where three peacock feathers are burnt as offerings.

In Hinduism the deity Lakshmi, who represents patience, benevolence and good luck is associated with the peacock. In fact, even today the peacock is India’s official national bird.

In Santeria the peacock is sacred to two major female orishas. One, Yemaya is Queen of the Seven Seas, the home and protector of women. The other Oshun is the goddess of love and money. Adorn their altars or yourself in their name with peacock feathers. Then watch the blessings come flying in.

Found among many paintings and mosaics in the Catacombs of Rome, the peacock was used as an early symbol for Christ’s Resurrection. This is due to the ancients believing the flesh of the peacock does not decay. The white peacock has the special honor of representing the Christ Consciousness.

They have also been domesticated pets for over 3,000 years. From the beginning they have been seen as superior guardians for temples and palaces. This is because they let out a shrill warning cry when strangers approach. This skill has rightly earned the peacock the reputation as a protector.

They are like a celestial vision, bringing a sense of joy to our lives. Just looking at the peacock lifts your spirits. They bestow a renewed sense of wonder and appreciation for the beauty of God’s creations.

Peacocks strike a chord within to take more pure joy in life, just by being who we are. To be proud of whom we are and strut our stuff, not to “keep our light under a bushel”.

Their fan of a thousand eyes evokes the feeling of being under the watchful Eye of God, All Seeing, and All Powerful.

While it is considered extremely bad luck to display any part of a dead animal in one’s space, please note that the peacock is not killed to collect their luminous plumage! After the mating season the male sheds all his glorious feathers. People who sell the feathers do not kill the birds. They collect them for sale after each season. Unlike many other species of birds, the fowl was not hurt in the attainment of the feathers. He joyfully discards the plumage after their “magic” has gotten him the love of his chosen peahen.

The power of the peacock can be used quite successfully in many feng shui cures. Since birds are of the “fire” element, displaying images or peacock feathers in the Fame Gua is exceptionally lucky. This should boost your recognition greatly. You will be seen as a person of much integrity and grace. You can achieve much fame and others will appreciate your talents. Being under the protection of the “All Seeing Eye”, you will be kept free of jealousy and scandal.

The number nine is associated with the Fame area. Therefore if you place actual feathers here it is best to use nine feathers in the display. This will reap maximum good fortune. Put them in a red or green vase.

The Relationship gua is of the Earth element. Therefore the peacock can bestow blessings upon it. Things in two should be utilized in this area. If you’re planning on using a print, there are some important guidelines to follow. First make sure the two birds are looking at each other. If they’re looking in different directions there will only be disagreements in the relationship. Also make sure you have a peacock and a peahen in the print. Remember what you see is what you get in feng shui. Two birds of the same sex will bring you a same sex lover. I have recommended this cure to many of my gay clients. If you desire a male-female relationship, the birds must be male and female. Many prints only have the males in them because the peahen is not as colorfully attired as the peacock. Shop with care and attention.

We absorb and eventually become the energies surrounding us. Incorporating the image of the peacock in dress, decoration and art can uplift our spirits to the heavens, place us under protection of celestial deities and bring us much prominence and romance. Try some Peacock Power to enrich your life.

Judith Auora Ryan is a Feng Shui Master who lives in Bayonne, NJ. Judith’s Feng Shui practice specializes in home, office, and business environments. Many multi-million dollar corporations, risk management firms, doctor’s offices, hospitals, restaurants, law firms, and retailers have commissioned her. Judith is a charismatic public speaker and seminar leader and lectures in the United States and abroad. Her lecture expertise has been engaged by the top world cruise lines to enlighten and entertain their passengers. She is a popular guest on radio and television stations. She taught at Middlesex College in Edison, NJ courses on Feng Shui and the Tao of Color from 1993 to 2004. Judith wrote an Astrology column for NJ Holistic Magazine from 1993 to 2003. For additional information please go to www.FengShuibyJudithRyan.com or phone 201.858.1689.


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Financial Prospects for the year- Zodiac wise

We all wish that through an interventional from a higher power we are foretold of the misfortunes that are to plague us in the coming year. Everyone would love for a glimpse into their near future, warning them in case of an incorrect step and cheering them on for every correct life decision made. We may not be lucky enough for all resultant consequences of our decisions to be spelled out but our horoscopes do give us an insight to what our future has in store for us. So if you are wondering if this is your year for a capital budgeting decision or for an investment in the stock market, you have come to the right place.

Aries
2013 offers Aries with sound financial prospects. This is not the best of financial years for you but it definitely gives you leave for moderate investments. July will be highly yielding. However, exercise caution before investing.

Taurus
Be prepared for a challenging and stimulating professional project this year. It is essential you put your talents to use productively and explore new experiences and opportunities. Take chances because even though the year will be tough, you will be financially stable.

Gemini
The Gemini horoscope indicates towards significant changes. You are either likely to migrate abroad or have fluctuating finances due to a different project being undertaken. Stay alert in March and April as you will receive good luck during these months.

Cancer
Patience is the key to get you through 2013. You are expected to have a dramatic turn of events after July. Be tolerant and accept this change rather than dismissing it. You will be doubtful and apprehensive on numerous occasions but have faith in yourself and your abilities. Remember, there is always a way.

Leo
The lions are in luck this year. Do not be afraid to make financial commitments during the year. Make daring financial decisions and make expensive purchases of long term assets. Soak in all the benefits of this lucrative year without hesitation.

Virgo
Virgo horoscope points towards a year with new ventures. You will be financially stable as well as will be provided with avenues for improvement. This is a highly conducive environment for a new project hence does not second guess yourself.

Libra
The beginning of the year will see little movement and no changes. However, as the year progresses you will find it to be financially favourable. You are expected to benefit through strangers and foreigners. This is the year to grow and mature professionally.

Scorpio
This just isn’t your year. Prepare yourself for the worst. You will have financial setbacks and will find it hard to meet commitments. The first half of the year will be particularly difficult. Don’t be disheartened, be prudent and hope for a better next year.

Sagittarius
Even though you are advised to not take life altering decisions during this year, you will have an excellent financial year. Do not take unnecessary risks and plan your decisions. These will unfold to bring you great success and gains.

Capricorn
2013 is all about laying the foundation for your future. You will not gain monetarily but will definitely enhance your self-confidence and faith in yourself. You will be entrusted with responsibilities which will help you to exploit your potential.

Aquarius
Focus and determination will see you through this year. You will face complex situations and challenging problems. The trick is to not get flustered or overwhelmed. Take it in your stride and work extra hard towards your goals.

Pisces
You will be financially stable throughout the year but will not make any surplus. Therefore, it is essential to be disciplined and motivated. Ensure you are consistent with your work and that itself should help you tremendously.

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